We give you all our secrets to achieve the best tantric massage possible. We explain to you where it comes from, how to have the best experience and we give you 5 concrete ideas to do a tantric massage at home!
First of all, what is the promise of tantric massage?
Tantric massage comes directly from the concept of tantra, which has its origins in the Hindu religion. It is a mix between meditation, yoga and sexuality. The aim is to listen better to your body and mind, to achieve intense pleasure.
The promise of tantric massage is therefore to quickly be able to experience tantra even when you are a neophyte. There are excellent more detailed training to learn more about tantra. Tantric massage remains an excellent first experience to get to grips with the subject.
How do you do an excellent tantric massage?
In tantra, It's all about calm, listening and well-being in the service of sexuality.
Adapting your environment
We are going to lay the foundations to put ourselves in good conditions: we do this in a room where we feel good, as least cluttered as possible with a temperature that suits us. We remove everything that is not necessary from this room, we ventilate and we put ourselves in place.
Focus on your well-being
To have the best time possible, choose A day when you have time, where you are in a good mood and where you want to let go. During this day, do something that makes you happy like taking a nice hot shower or going for a walk. Try as much as possible to empty your mind to be in tune with your body and its sensations.
Try meditation
If you are a fan of the subject, you can help yourself achieve this state of well-being by doing a short mediation session. If you don't know how to do it alone, Consider using assisted meditation apps specialized in sexuality such as Climax and its tantric meditation program.
Book your evening with your significant other
If you want to share this moment with a friend, give him or her these instructions too so that he or she is in the best possible arrangements.
Also, prepare the elements he makes for you such as massage oil, candles or even essential oils.
What are the benefits of tantric massage?
In accordance with its Hindu origin, tantric massage seems to have 3 main objectives:
Relax and develop the ability to listen to your body and mind
Put yourself in such conditions, promotes inner well-being and listening. Be careful, even if we talk a lot about relaxation, we don't forget for a second thatYou have to have fun. But you can have fun in the gentle way, right? That is the aim of tantric massage. Find calm and serenity to better tame your pleasure.
Get maximum pleasure from a tantric massage
That's why tantra was created: discover new ways to do good for yourself. Letting go allows you to have access to higher levels of pleasure where you worry less about the eyes of others and where you let yourself go. It is also an essential key to a healthy sexuality in general.
Discovering new erogenous zones
Tantra techniques allow To explore your body without any preconceived ideas. By being in addition in a good energy situation, you will be able to explore and tame new erogenous zones. It is true that we all tend to go towards obvious erogenous zones (sex, breasts, buttocks...) but in fact there are many other erogenous zones to discover. Here, we are not talking about masturbation: Tantric massage simply touches gently to rediscover erogenous zones. Also, if you do a body massage, it will be done with light pressure: the aim is not to loosen a knot, but to learn to listen to your body.
What does it take to do a good tantric massage?
If you have already tried it, here are some essentials for a good tantric massage:
- A few candles (lightly scented or not), or a dim light
- Incense (if you don't opt for candles)
- Essential oils If you want to increase the benefits tenfold on a specific subject
- A cozy place: If your mattress is not great, you can also arrange to do that on a super soft plaid or blanket
- Of The pretty lingerie or a small silk kimono for Madame; underwear that is light and does not keep perspiration for Monsieur
- An excellent massage oil : at Bimbojam, we have two favorites: gourmet massage oil (you can taste it!) , signed Passage du Désir. It is available in several flavors to please everyone:) As a second alternative, there is MyLubie CBD intimate oil, we especially love it if you have small irritations because it soothes. The best is to combine the two: gourmet massage oil for the whole body, and CBD intimate oil for private parts.
- Discover alone or in pairs theexcellent Climax program dedicated to tantric massages
5 ideas for tantric massages
And now, most importantly, here are some concrete ideas for performing a tantric massage.
An anchored tantric massage, eye to eye
You take your best Spotify playlist, good quiet sound (we love La Belle Mixtape;)) and you put on the essential oils that relax you the most, such as olive and frankincense essential oils to promote anchoring.
Sit in front of your sidekick You will gently caress her upper body only, looking at it Right in the eyes. Be sure to vary the pace and intensity of your caresses. Keep your eyes open and look for the moment when something changes to increase the intensity. Let the temperature rise, making sure not to touch intimate areas.
Full body tantric massage
Pick a quiet room, and do it In turn. When you do a full body massage in general, We start at the back to end at the front. Start with the lower body, making sure to take good care of each part. You can even talk at the same time to relax your other half:
“Every time you feel my fingers touch your body, you relax more and more and let yourself go...”
The objective is to do the massage one after the other, by promoting relaxation and communication to get to know your respective bodies. Then you can go further who knows;)?
Tantric massage while blindfolded
Blindfolded completely cuts us off from meaning, which has the effect of multiplying the others tenfold. To do this, you must have 100% confidence in your partner. He can be seated or lying down and the goal is always to take it slow and to tenderly discover the erogenous zones. You can add music and lyrics if you want, as in the examples above.
The tantric massage SPA version
One of our favorites, especially when we are away from the SPA. To do this you needa bathroom with a bit of space: Turn on the heat if necessary and run a bath in which you will put essential oils or scented bubbles. Add a few candles (a dozen is nice) and prepare the floor: put a floor mat with one or two plaids to make it comfortable). Enjoy the moment, the play of light and the intensity that will slowly build up between you.
The solo tantric massage
Sometimes You have to know how to think about yourself ! For singles or those who just want to enjoy their moment together: you can adapt the 4 massages above even if you are alone! The whole thing will be to touch your own body, to listen to your sensations and to raise the temperature with yourself. Of course you will thank us 🙂
You now have all the keys to be able to get your foot off the ground! If you are looking for other ideas to test new practices, our article on The sexy challenges Cardboard!
