In this day and age, it's safe to say that staying in love for a lifetime is a hell of a challenge! For this reason, we are convinced that a good sexual dynamic is essential to make love last ❤️.
According to some statistics, the French have an average of 8.7 sexual relationships per month, or 104 sexual relationships per year. Over only 10 years, we therefore go up to more than 1000 sexual relationships, enough to spice things up!
You will agree, so it is very important to be creative and that's why we've made it our mission to help you reach this goal.
For this purpose, we want to share Our secrets about sexual challenges that you should definitely try when we are in a relationship! Some are more affordable than others, the main thing is to try and, above all, to dare to talk to your partner.
How do you discuss the subject with your partner?
From my own experience, communication as a couple is THE key success factor to make it last ! Yes, expressing how you feel, asking questions and listening to each other is a key ingredient in the success of staying in a relationship. It's perfect because this little sexual game of challenging your partner will require you to... talk to him about it first 😉.
We are nice, we share with you several possible options to appropriately approach the conversation with your other half:
- You get right to the point during a conversation.
- Suggest the subject by message to then address it face to face
- Make a Voice Whats App or Insta which allows you to prepare the speech in advance
- Suggest a dinner or an aperitif to put the subject on the table
- Do this on the pillow before or after sex
The main thing is to use the method that suits you best and try your luck! If you are shy to bring up the subject and you are making a first error, start again 😉
In love too you have to know how to be resilient!
What are the 20 sexual challenges you should definitely try?
Let's go: step by step, we give you our secrets to set up this sex game and challenge your partner! Be careful, we're going to increase the temperature.
Sex challenge 1: getting massages
Of course, this first challenge is accessible, it is to make your task easier. Several versions are available to you and that's the nice thing. To begin with, you Do the massage yourself then you wait for your turn to take action.
Then, a Another version is to take matters into your own hands quickly: You start the massage and your hands slide... exactly where you needed to. Finally, you can set up the premium version: choose a nice place at home (bathroom, living room...) and create a pleasant atmosphere with candles, a plaid to lie down in! You will definitely believe you are in the SPA, you will thank us.
Sex challenge 2: giving yourself a surprise sexual gift
The idea is to Suggest to your partner to choose a sex toy that he would like to test and give it to you. For your part, of course, you also choose yours. You agree on a date and you give each other a little surprise!
Valentine's Day or a birthday seem to be dates that are very suitable for carrying out this first sexual challenge. This allowed us to spice up our last Valentine's Day by testing nipple clamps and it was a superb discovery.
Sexual challenge 3: choosing an unusual sex toy and testing it
We stay in the same mood here, this time we decide together: what an unusual sex toy we both want to test! Surely, when we say “out of the ordinary,” It depends on each 😉
If you are at the beginning of your lovemaking, it may simply be trying a god for the first time. On the other hand, if you have already tested a lot of things, you can imagine a much crazier toy (ties, gags...). To each his own thing, and to each couple has their own level of evolution and openness on the subject.
If you want to please your female partner, you can try Sex toys that are clitoral stimulators : it means that they are only made to titillate the clito and not at all penetration like the very popular Namii from Biird.
Sex Challenge 4: Make yourself a night out Climax.how
Climax.how is the educational sex video platform of the moment. In fact, It's 100% adult education : how to touch yourself, find the G spot, activate your libido... All shown in a very explicit way that makes the experience ultra-sexy. Great moments to share with your other half hehe. I am sure you will enjoy spending time with your partner. by watching some Climax videos. It's profitable but largely affordable for the value it brings.
Sex challenge 5: dress up
One of my favorite challenges! The first time it's quite funny then when we get started,Above all, it's ultra-exciting. ! For example, you can ask your partner what costume makes him fantasize and start with that one. You also have the choice to give him a total surprise for his birthday for example and choose your favorite costume. Personally, I have a soft spot for sexy rabbit costume.
I think I'm gorgeous in a sexy rabbit costume and that's priceless.
Sex challenge 6: choosing a hotel and spending a few hours or a night there
It is always a great idea to get out of the daily routine and stimulate yourself by doing an activity. If you don't have time or budget to leave, you can always book only one night (or even an afternoon), near you. For this, there is a great app that allows you to book luxury hotel rooms during off-peak hours and that is Staycation. You are going to love it!
Sex challenge 7: make love in an unusual place
Sex outside of bed is a habit to get into! Surprise your partner by asking them to choose the next place where they want to make jumps. The rule? We choose now and the next time we are there, we go for it. As for the rest, everyone has their own level of experience on the subject and their fantasies. From the park to the airplane bathroom, to the cinema, everything is possible.
Sex challenge 8: play strip poker
By adding the following little spice: the fate of the loser is in the hands of the other.
Sex challenge 9: play a game of pawn
On the program for this naughty evening, a defined number of mini challenges. Luckily, you can pick up a few ideas right here. To organize yourself, it's simple: you each have 3 sexual pledges to give before midnight. To decide, whoever starts will be drawn with a die or chi-fu-mi. It's up to you to see.
Sex challenge 10: testing the anal (both sides)
Promise, I didn't make a mistake with the meaning;). When I say on both sides, I want to talk about both partners.
Whether you are straight or not, it can be fun to test anal on your own scale, even if you are a man. In any case, we give you A few tips to start anal and discuss the subject with your partner.
Sex challenge 11: try tantric sex
Tantric sex would be a way of Take full advantage of a sexual relationship by combining sexuality and spirituality. We are talking about becoming aware of the other and taking full advantage of this moment. The sensations would be exponential. Originally from India, this centuries-old practice is back in fashion.
She even offers Tantra courses.
As an alternative, you can even mix trantism and a good massage! This gives the exquisite Tantric massage 😉
Sexual challenge 12: let the other person lead the way (blindfold, tie...)
Like many of the challenges proposed here, this one requires real trust in your partner. Trust is the basis for successful sex. For more originality, we reverse the roles from time to time. If both partners want to, of course.
Sex challenge 13: prepare a sexy surprise for each day of the week
I love it You Choose a week of vacation and every morning, you swipe a sexy little card to your darling. Each of the cards contains the pledge of the day, the best thing is to put two options.
“You choose: let me lick your nipples or masturbate in front of you.”
It raises the temperature in addition to allowing you to spend a week full of dopamine.
Sex challenge 14: try hot/cold
To do this, you need 3 ingredients: a candle, a lighter, ice cubes (if possible that do not melt). Plus you add a lace blindfold to be sexy.
You take turns doing this and you communicate with your partner to make sure that the practice is ok as you go along:). If ice cubes are preferably made of plastic, it is to be able to use them better;).
Sex challenge 15: do a surprise treasure hunt
One of my big favorites and ideal if you are going on the go and are afraid that your other half will be bored without you. On the program, you prepare a multi-stage treasure hunt for him (why not the number of days he was absent).
Each day, you offer a pledge that your partner can do with or without you : masturbate, Send you a sext, choose a new sex toy or just go and be pampered at the SPA. I tell you, big fan guaranteed!
Sex challenge 16: do a striptease
It is believed that striptease is only for those who are confident in their bodies. What a nenni! Practicing striptease can help you gain self-confidence. Imagine your partner lusting after you, it's super hot. Of course, the rule is not to do it until the striptease is over otherwise it's not funny.
Sexual challenge 17: educate yourself with JouISSANCE CLUB
Jouissance Club is the most popular book on sexuality.
Vulvas, Pins and vulvas are drawn from every angle and we explain to you how it works. We tell you where to touch and how in a super fun way. It's a really easy way to put the topic of sexuality on the table and learn more about your gender and that of your roommate.
Then, your mission is to move on to the practice of Nice advice that we give you in Jouissance Club. Here is a small overview;)
Sex challenge 18: watch a sex movie together
For this, you have to dare to assume your fantasies with your partner. Depending on who you are in sync with and your level of trust in each other, your way of doing things will not be the same.
You have the first soft version where you watch the movie together, before starting your relationships: it allows you to comment and raise the temperature. The second version, a step up, is to choose a movie and imitate some of the positions! An option of choice for the most players, you will take advantage of it for laugh a bit and create complicity, What a pleasure!
Challenge 19: Make a cam video
Once again, you have to trust your partner (you don't do that with just anyone). The practice is daring but very funny. So the objective is to make a cam together and to excite you from a distance.
A lot of options are available to you: you caress each other quietly, you penetrate or lick a god, you just make sexy noises while being erotic... We say it clearly: this Practice is only available to someone you can trust extremely well. Besides, you don't have to show your face:).
Challenge 20: Get flirted with by someone else
This is the last challenge on our list. because it's only made for the reckless. If you are a bit playful, confident and not jealous, you can give it a try. Give an appointment to a plan (found on a dating app or in another way) and suggest that your partner observe. It seems that it increases the excitement of some.
The idea is not (necessarily) to go all the way, but only to stay on the hook.
Thanks for this well-placed attention, you now know all the secrets to doing the best ass challenges. Some are clearly more original than others, it's up to you!
Share the article with your partner and ask them to choose their favorite sexual challenge. It's a great way to start a conversation and get new ideas.
Have fun 😘.
