There are a lot of ways to have a fulfilling sexuality as a couple, so we wanted you. Sharing Our Little Secrets To get there. In this article, we give you ideas to feel good alone and with your partner in order to have a fulfilling sexual relationship.
We are going to approach the subject using two different approaches:
- What can you do with your partner to Help Each Other Feel Good And Therefore Have a Fulfilled Sexuality
- What Can We Do Individually to Feel Good And therefore facilitate sexual development in a couple
How can we help each other to be sexually fulfilled?
Be Caring and Maintain Trust
For starters, Confidence is certainly one of the essential points for a full sexual relationship. Indeed, even if you might believe it at first glance, men are in fact no more confident in themselves than women.
We talk a lot about the pressure of society on women's bodies (model sizes, hair removal...) which is highly publicized and that's a good thing. Many people are speaking up to defend women's differences. However, We Sometimes Forget That Men Also Have Real Pressure (manage to achieve a sexual performance, last a long time...).
So it's important on both sides, To avoid judgment and to be benevolent. If Things Don't Go As We Want, The Other Person May Be Even More Uncomfortable Than Us! So before overreacting, it's a good idea to check that the other person is feeling well.
In fact, it poses A Caring and Trusting EnvironmentThis is essential if you want to start off on a good footing and hope to have a fulfilling sexuality.
To simply fuel the trust of others and create a pleasant environment, you can:
- Compliment him: On her body, her outfit, her way of doing things... The advantage is that a compliment takes immediate effect. Yes, can you imagine being told that your underwear is sublime or that your perfume is perfect, what effect does that have? It's nice isn't it? Don't overdo it either, but don't hesitate to say what you think (if it's positive, we're talking here about making the other person feel at ease, not too direct honesty). If you compliment him, You Will Definitely Get a Compliment in Return and it will help you feel good about your body too.
- Banish Judgment: Judgment is a matter of frame of reference. We all have our own experiences and they are precisely different from those of others. The person in front of you has their own reactions so don't judge them too quickly. If you don't understand a reaction or action, it's best to just ask the question. Indeed, engaging in communication removes a lot of misunderstandings.
Communicating to create an open climate
As already mentioned above, communication is really Very important to be able to have a fulfilled sexuality.
Communicating allows the other person to understand that they too can say what they think. It can even get erotic! So to create a climate favorable to communication, here is what to start with:
Communicate about how we feel
Having smooth communication is not for everyone. That's why We Strongly Invite You to Take the First Step ! And the easiest thing is obviously to communicate about how you feel. For example, right after the sexual act, you can say what you liked and what you didn't like. If you are afraid of being too direct, then start by asking questions: “When we did this act, how did you feel?” , “What did you think of...” Here's a simple way to start communication.
You Can AlsoI communicate before the sexual act. For example, if you haven't had relationships in a long time you can say that you are a bit stressed and that you need time. You can also say that you like (or not) long foreplay etc.
Communicate about your desires as a couple
You can do it before or during the sexual act. This allows you to increase your arousal and that of your partner. It also gives you the opportunity to get what you want and to validate the desire of the other person.
Indeed, if you say to your partner, for example, “I want you to spank me”, it will excite him; it will tell him that you are ok with this practice and in addition it will allow you to have what you wanted. It's perfect isn't it?
Communicate About Your Fantasies
This is the last point because to get there you must have already started to establish a climate of trust and have learned to communicate about more basic things. The right way to Put Your Fantasies on the Table It's asking questions: “What do you think of...” “Have you ever tried to...” “Can I share my biggest fantasy with you?” And then, let yourself be carried away!
Do Things Together That Make Us Feel Comfortable
It's no surprise, sex is for two! If words are not your first mode of operation, you can try doing erotic activities together like the basic Suggest a massage or offer naughty games. We'll soon tell you more in another article!
How do you feel good to be sexually confident?
Now It's Time to Talk Individual ways that make us feel good sexually. Finally, feeling sexually comfortable also involves accepting yourself and your body. So to gain confidence, we take care of ourselves!
Pamper yourself to be sexually comfortable
It's ultra-accessible. You Can Actually Set Up a Ritual When You Know That You Have A Naughty Appointment Waiting for You !
There are my 3 Simple Little Secrets To feel comfortable in your body and therefore put you in good conditions to have a fulfilling sexuality:
- Take a Shower, Perfume Yourself and Put Some Cream On From Head to Toe: You Will Feel Superb!
- Find time to Do a Massage the Week Before Your Naughty Date, you will be much more relaxed.
- Go get a make:pA short manicure for the ladies and a quick trip to the barber for the men: once again, you will feel great in your body!
Do Sports and Have a Good Diet
Yes, you will probably think that I am basking you in the great classic but it's still excellent advice! SEating Healthy Allows You to Feel Good in Your Stomach (and therefore feel light!) , to have beautiful skin and to be in good shape!
On the sports side, if you try even a few weeks on a regular basis, You will quickly see the difference ! Chances are you'll become much more sexually enduring and toned. It clearly makes a difference in how I feel during the act (I can do more things, I am effective longer...). In addition, it also has an effect on the well-being of my partner because I am able to give him more pleasure!
Wearing Pretty Lingerie Adapted to Your Body Type
Trust us, your relationship with bodies will certainly change when you wear lingerie adapted to your body type! You will have more confidence to walk around in front of partner freely. For me, the essentials to have in your lingerie to have a fulfilling sexuality are the following:
- The Kymono in Satin and Velvet
- A body adapted to its morphology (you can see The Sexy Bodysuits That I selected for you)
- Fishnet stockings that always have an effect!
Now I like to wear nice lingerie even just for myself because it actually gives me confidence and it's amazing!
In any case, today I gave you the points that are important for me to succeed in having a fulfilling sexuality as a couple. Obviously, it's a set of things and not everything comes from the genre overnight so I just invite you to Pick the tips you like best from this short list ! Good sexuality as a couple is built together and over time, so the main thing is to start already.
Kisses.
