What is behind the mystery of the G spot in men? The G spot, this concept that is supposed to provide superpowerful pleasure, is sometimes a taboo for men. Today we want to break this taboo: we explain everything you need to know about the G spot and also how to suggest to your partner to try it if you feel like it;).
On your marks... ready? G spot!
What is the G spot for men?
First of all, let's get to the origins of the G spot: this expression is directly linked to the name of the gynecologist who discovered it, Doctor “Grafenberg” who launched research on the female G spot in 1950 after writing an article on ”The role of the urethra in the female orgasm”.
In his case, we are not talking about a male G spot at all, since it only concerns women. It's a bit of a misnomer to use it for humans:). In the case of men, we often hear the term “Point P” because it concerns the prostate.
So it is Stimulation of the prostate gland (which is just behind the bladder of men) which will increase sexual arousal tenfold and give him the opportunity to have a very powerful orgasm. To make it more clear, we made a diagram for you ^^:
The prostate is very important in the sexual life of men because it is an actor in reproduction: it will manufacture sperm and participate in ejaculation. Broadly speaking, As soon as a man is ready to ejaculate, the prostate will contract and allow sperm to reach the urethra.
What do I do to reach point P?
Thanks to the diagram above, you will therefore have understood that the point P is very close to the rectum and that this is usually the way we try to reach it. To reach the prostate, you can do a massage.
By positioning yourself Above the perineum, maintain firm pressure located between the anus and the testicles. This area is also directly accessible through the rectum. It is a very sensitive place for men and should be tamed very gently.
In terms of position, the ideal is for the man to get on all hands and knees or squat, with his knees facing his or her partner. These are the perfect positions to make the prostate easy to access. You can try alone or with your partner: in any case, there is no question of doing a “performance”.
Reaching orgasm takes time and It also requires being good with yourself, no need to try to do this in 2 minutes, like everything, it can be learned.
Why reach your G spot when you are a man?
In fact, The prostate zone is a hypersensitive area. She is very innervated (there are a lot of nerve endings) and that is why prostate massage provides a lot of pleasure. In addition, the prostate orgasm is internal, and therefore deeper, unlike the usual pelvic orgasm in men, which is external to him. The pelvic floor muscles play an important role: they make the internal organs vibrate up to the prostate and make it possible to reach orgasm.
For men, it is an open door to new sensations and new pleasures and is therefore worth a try.
Why do men have apprehensions about trying to stimulate their G spot?
Now, all that's left is to dare to take action. We remind you that everyone does as they want: there is no obligation to test even if you have a partner who really wants to. Our sexual boundaries are extremely personal. In addition, men have two big obstacles when it comes to testing anal sex:
- It is a practice that relates to the homosexual environment and heterosexuals have a lot of apprehension : if they like it then they are gay? Is it “manly” to like that? What does it mean about them if they like it? A lot of questions that men ask about this.
- It is a practice that involves the rectum and therefore has a “dirty” connotation: for men as well as for women, we are sometimes afraid to try anal because it is related to our anus and everything that involves having a bowel movement.
To overcome this, you need a bit of sex education and good communication in the couple.
In fact, We have every right to enjoy anal sex without being gay, especially if the G spot is hidden there:). In terms of hygiene, of course, all anal practices require a minimum of some: for those who are penetrated to be washed and do not want to go to the bathroom; for those who penetrate to have their hands clean and their nails cut, for example.
How do you offer your partner to try it and where do you start?
First of all, we highly recommend that you put the conversation on the table. Very simply, ask your partner what does he think of this practice? Has he already tested it alone or with another person? How does he feel about trying it with you?
Since it is a sensitive subject, we advise you not to go there without asking the question first.
Certainly, We apply all the best practices when we try anal sex for the first time, whether for one finger or for more! We advise you To use lubricant so that it goes smoothly, to go tenderly and to communicate well. If you want to try it alone it's the same: be unapologetic, let yourself go and apply good practices with lubricant and by going slowly!
As you will have understood, trying to reach the male G spot involves having to rub against the male anal zone... And it is a subject that raises debates! We strongly invite you to try or offer your partner to test: this is the way for new sensations and an interesting experience. Trust yourself (each other and yourself) and don't put pressure on yourself. If that doesn't work, that's not a problem. Remember to go gently because the area is very sensitive. Finally, since the area is particularly innervated, this facilitates the transmission of STIs and STDs therefore Protect yourself well and do the appropriate tests before you start.
